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Thursday, May 20, 2010

ustaz oh ustaz!

Soo much of wanting to start a blog..but never update it!!..haha..hmm..been busy with work la..

Well..my work is not that busy. Working in a district hospital occasionally we'll be ventilating few sick babies in a month and once in awhile will be getting an ill patients. this month alone, I've encountered 3 death..that equals to 3 reports to be done..and if im "LUCKY" 3 presentations to present for hospital mortality meeting..but the tiring part was doing a very frequent oncalls. The fact of being oncall is just damn tiring cos u cant go anywhere and just be at the hospital to standby..just imagine 52 hours in the hospital!!!..guess that's the reason why my excitement for wedding has gone down...

To get the excitement back, I decided to take a long break :) tak la lama sgt, 4 days je to run errands..mainly to settle borang permohonan nikah and meeting few ppl..plusss..updating my blog..hehe

Soo last night, I went to meet jurunikah at my kawasan cos i plan to nikah outside of my kawasan..girls, whats ur exprience meeting up ur jurunikah?..cos mine, I was interviewed by the ustaz for 1 1/2 hrs!!!!

The ustaz asked me to meet him after isya'..soo, off I went to the pejabat masjid together with my parents, eldest sister + brother-in-law (as saksi) and my 2 younger brothers..haaa,semangat kan!!haha..

First thing he said when I entered his room "jemputla duduk..kita borak2 sikit.."..goshhh...my heart began palpating, nervous u!!...then, he passed me a paper with a check list sambil belek2 all my nikah documents "..ni ha, soalan2 lazim"(then dia gelak2 with my dad!)..I just took the paper n kept it in my file (sambil sengeh2 :) sbb blurr).

In the paper written
SOALAN-SOALAN KEPADA BAKAL PENGANTIN

  1. mengucap dua kalimah syahadah
  2. membaca selawat/istighfar
  3. membaca azan dan iqamat
  4. Membaca tasbih/rukuk/sujud
  5. doa iftitah
  6. niat solat fardu/waktu2 haram solat
  7. niat puasa/ zakat fitrah
  8. baca fatihah
  9. bacaan qunut
  10. baca tahayat awal/ akhir
  11. sujud tilawah
  12. lupa dalam solat/ sujud sahwi
  13. doa duduk antara dua sujud
  14. fardu wudhu
  15. fardu mandi/ tayammum
  16. rukun sembahyang
  17. pembatal wudhu
  18. solat qasar/ jamak dan niat2nya
  19. rukun Iman/ Islam
  20. sifat wajib, mustahil dan harus bagi Allah
  21. sifat wajib, mustahil dan harud bagi Rasul
  22. kitab2 yg diturunkan Allah
  23. bilangan surah dalam Quran
  24. hukum2 syarak
  25. hukum akal/ adat
  26. nama2 Nabi (10org)
  27. nabi2 Ulul Azmi/ kisah2nya
  28. perkara2 hadas besar
  29. haram semasa hadas besar
  30. haram semasa hadas kecil
  31. hukum Istinjak
  32. jenis2 air mutlak
  33. bahagian air
  34. sunat Ab'ad (tujuh)
  35. sunat Hai ah
  36. tempat sunat mengangkat tangan ketika solat
  37. najis dan bahagiannya
  38. cara menyuci najis
  39. darah2 perempuan
  40. bacaan 10 ayat lazim
  41. pergi mengambil wudhu dan baca Quran
  42. berkaitan jatuh talak
  43. talak Raj 'ie/ Ba in
  44. hukum Zihar/ kifarat Zihar
  45. rukun nikah
  46. Ila'/ Lian
  47. tugas dan tanggungjawab suami/ isteri
  48. lafaz terima nikah
  49. rosak akidah
  50. perempuan yg haram dikahwini
Tiba2, he asked me to mengucap..selesai mengucap, then suruh istighfar..selesai istighfar, then recite fatihah...selesai baca fatihah, then suruh I baca all the niat untuk solat 5 waktu..from that moment, I know he has alot to ask!!!..


Memang nervous nyah!..menggeletar suara I jawab semua soalan2 ustaz, sampai bila I sebut niat solat I start with "nawaitu fardu..." apalagi, terbahak2 semua org gelak!!..macam2 soalan dia tanya, niat solat qasar/jamak, rukun Iman/Islam, Sifat2 Allah, jenis2 darah perempuan, rukun2 solat, bacaan qunut, tahayat awal/akhir etc2 each of it he asked in details...most of it are basics, but when you are nervous..everything seems to be fall apart..everytime I tak boleh jawab, I'll smile at my dad and he smiled back at me..sejuk hati :) im lucky to have a dad like my dad :) he tried his best untuk lengkapkan anak2 dgn ilmu agama which he never got it before when he was a youngster..tapi, anak2 dia mmg nakal! ;p

It was almost 11pm, ustaz pon stop.."kalau boleh, banyak lagi soalan2 ustaz nak tanya..tapi ustaz dah ngantok"..huh..lega rasa dalam hati!!..before we left, ustaz pon bagi nasihat and he pointed out reasons for asking all those questions...

Come to think about it, im glad the ustaz asked what he needed to ask..for all the answers that I couldn't get, that was my bad..it made me realized how important for u to know and recapitulate all these basic things to lead ur family..getting married is not only about you and your better half, but starting a family...and it's in your hand how you gonna bring them up...


13 comments:

kay kamal said...

okay...like viva mbbs pulak da..

tx for the link. sure u pnat nye ngn oncalls nye post call lagi. gosh!~ itll b me in 5 mnths!! *denial state lagi*

iza.rahman said...

erk!
mmg semua jurunikah akan tanye soklan2 nih ke??
masak... ;p

My Journey said...

ohh nasib baik our juru nikah didn't ask anything to hubby...hehehe...hopefully your jurunikah pun sporting like ours..hehehe

The Spasmodic Scribbler said...

I like this post. It reminds me that there are far more important things other than pelamin, decorator, photographer, hantaran, door gifts, canopy etc.

The essence of marriage and the pillars behind it. We seem to forget about that one.

Thanks for the post dear =)

bride2wife said...

kay: gud luck with ur coming final exams!

iza: be prepared! ;)

sab: hope soo!! :D

farah: it's a peringatan for me jugak :)

Durruz said...

huhu.kalau i jadi u pun confirm neves..

haih..bole x nak soh org lain ganti jumpe ustaz..hehu~

siti~ said...

oh!
nervousnya!
if i dalm ur situation pon msti suma fall apart
crossing my finger smga seisi bertemu my jurunikah nnti berjln lancar

p/s: google'ing n found ur blog.thee~(^^_)v

bride2wife said...

siti: yess..nervous...and malu xdpt jawab!hehe..

inazdaud said...

kak tahirah, inaz ni.. hehe... best la blog akak.. masa sy dulu, dia just tny apa syarat wajib nikah.. ala, yg jwpn dia SISWA tu: suami, isteri, saksi, wali, akad.. tu je.. lps tu dia berkhutbah.. yg paling best, masa akad tu, pengantin lelaki kena pegang mic, so masa lafaz aku terima nikahnya tu, 1 kampung blh dengar.. mcm khutbah jumaat.. hehehe....

bride2wife said...

hai inaaaazzzz...camne boleh jumpa blog ni?hehe..malunya! ;p

waaa..siap ada mnemonic lg..serious tak pnh dgr!haha..

mesti nervous gila husband inaz time akad..kalau jadi kat husband akak, tak tau la dah kahwin ke tak skrg..lol

inazdaud said...

hehehe... sy jumpa thru liyana (square cut ring) & ashylla.. dorg skoolmate sy kat SAMURA.. tp seres la kak, mmg ur wedding is the sweetest wedding sy penah tgk.. belated congrats sis! ;)

* sy suruh semua kwn² sy baca blog akak sbb best.. blh kan? hehe..

bride2wife said...

thanks inaz.. :)

hmm..inaz kerja dgn ayah akak lagi ke?..jgn bgtau dia sudah..*maluuu*

inazdaud said...

tak.. kite skang kat miri.. keje ngan sapuracrest petroleum.. PJJ ngan hubby.. huhu.. sob sob.. T_T every 2 weeks balik KL.. mengkayakan Air Asia ngan MAS je.. hihi..